Are there gay dating apps for finding a sugar daddy?

shonty

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I'm a young gay man attracted to older men, and I'm interested in exploring the world of sugar dating to find a partner. I'd like to meet someone who is generous, kind, adventurous, and caring, but also calm and attentive.

I've tried Seeking, but so far it hasn't been successful. Does anyone have recommendations for other apps, websites, or ways to find a gay sugar daddy?
 
The go-to is usually MenNation.com - they have a website and an app. You could also try free styling, but that's a tougher route.

Browse this forum for threads on red flags and scams. It will save you a lot of trouble when you’re looking for a sugar daddy.
 
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I've met some sugar daddies on AdultFriendFinder and even Grindr. However, it's important to note that the number of men seeking paid sex far outweighs those looking for genuine paid companionship.

Your best bet is to carve out a specific niche for yourself on gay apps or sites. If you present something unique, you're more likely to attract a generous man who's genuinely interested.
 
Grindr is the top choice. Scruff is also good for finding more relationship-minded, generous older men.

Set your age filter to 40+. Your bio should mirror what you wrote here: "Seeking a kind, adventurous mentor/generous partner." Include keywords like "generous," "sugar," or "mentor" in your profile.

Don’t be afraid to join relevant social-media or communities (on Discord, Reddit) that cater to gay sugar relationships.

Hope you find someone great who matches what you’re looking for.
 
Gay Sugar Daddies are rare and usually don't use the standard sugar dating websites. To find one, you typically need to freestyle or use apps like Grindr.

For a gay sugar baby, it's a very competitive scene. There are far more gay SBs than SDs - maybe 50 or 100 SBs for every 1 SD. This means the SD has his pick. Success often depends heavily on fitting a specific look: being young, attractive, and typically either a "fem twink" or a muscular "jock." If you don't fit those types, it's much harder. Even if you do, you'll likely still need to freestyle.
 
It's definitely possible - I have gay friends who are sugar babies themselves. It can just be a bit harder to find genuine ones in the sugar scene. Most niche sugar dating websites are geared toward straight users, so the options for gay men are more limited.

You'll run into a lot of time-wasters and scammers. You're probably better off looking for a sugar daddy through informal channels, like within your local gay community, at events, or through mutual connections.
 
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